Wish I could tell you some word of encouragement, been following your sitch. I am new at DB, so I am clueless. Its so hard to know whats going on in someone's head when you are deployed, I know I was there. I remember my high school sweet heart breaking my heart on christmas day when I called her from italy, only for 3 days later to be sent to the Persian Gulf. After that I tried to stay away from relationships while I was in the military (was infantry active duty 7 years). I've seen so many dear johns in my day, I do know some guys worked things out and some didn't. Pretty sure none of them had DB coaches and forums for support tho, so you are already ahead of the odds. Remain positve and keep up with the 180 and have a Happy Thanksgiving!
M 33 W 29 S 4 M 5 T 7 11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents 12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over" 1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped