I certainly dont want to compete with her (OW) ..and i know that i cant get rid of her, that has to be his choice..and im afraid she isnt going anywere soon...

Im having a hard time just excepting it...i need to stop obsessing on what they are doing and how seriouse are they, what does she look like and how long has this been going on..i know nothing..since the day i caught them together (in our bed) i have not brought it up and it has not been discussed...
I know i need to let it go, its so hard...the imagination is an evil thing...

Me:48 H:42
M: 18 yrs.
S: 9/1/09 due to alcoholic H
D bomb: 9/9/11
OW confirmed 10/30/11
D papers filed 11/01/11
S15 S21(Special needs) S28

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