I was driving home to pick the kids up, wife called, she was fine, asking where I was etc, and said she would drop something's off at mine for the kids later, I said that I was passing and could call in, she was very defiante that she would call around, and I mean very defiante? My thoughts wondered why?
Gets home with the kids and my mind is on overtime!!
I ask my son if there had been a man at the house, I know I shouldn't, but I did it casualy, he looked at me, initially said no, then said yes most nights! My heart sank!!
He then told me that om is there most nights they are home, he comes for 1-2 hours, helping mum around the house, doing small jobs, he never stays over and is just mums friend from school
I play it all down, I told him what he tells me will remain a secret, mum had told him not to tell me
I am now totally confused!!!
Yes I knew he was around, but after how things have been, and how she has acted, things she said, etc, it is obviously a lot more serious that it seemed He has meet my kids??
I will continue to be me, happy and smiling when I see her, but this does hurt!
I'm now very confused, but I suppose so is she?
I cannot control anything, but my actions and my mindset
I will not mention this to the kids or her
But at least I know how serious it is, good luck to her
