Finally confronted H on affair...Now what????

[BklynMom]

I think you should let me do whatever he wants and suggest the plan be how he wants it. Validate validate validate. Yes the girls should stay with you and the other woman. No big deal.

I know it's impossible but I think bustaroma said the walk sways need to live their fantasy. I know my h soften changed his behaviors when my d got upset that he didn't live in our house vs me tell him she would be upset. Let your h live through the reactions of your kids. I know it's impossibly hard but I think it's the db thing to do