All comments make perfect sense. I need to go through my whole thread again and just reread and keep rereading just like DB book.

Thank you for advice

M37 W34
S6
D3
M8yrs T14
S 1year
Told me she doesn't want to be married 10/2011
"I will never stop trying because when you find the ONE, you never give up." Steve Carrell Crazy, stupid, Love