Finally confronted H on affair...Now what????

[mishka422]

"I have tried to acknowledge and answer all your questions and points to the best of my ability. You also know where I stand regarding this situation and we simply will not be able to agree on it. But you are your own person and you will do what you think you should do - I cannot control that. Please let me know at what time you plan to pick up the kids on Thursday and how you decided to approach the weekend ."

That last part is going to put you right back in the cycle again. It doesn't matter how he is approaching the weekend, that is his to own and yours to get past.