Finally confronted H on affair...Now what????

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While re-reading this recent post, I realize that I need to get off my soap box... I sound like such a victim, like there is nothing in my power.

H just left another message asking to talk to finalize plans for kids for the holiday.
I was thinking about calling him (or emailing?) and saying.

"I have tried to acknowledge and answer all your questions and points to the best of my ability. You also know where I stand regarding this situation and we simply will not be able to agree on it. But you are your own person and you will do what you think you should do - I cannot control that. Please let me know at what time you plan to pick up the kids on Thursday and how you decided to approach the weekend."

Is that good?