REQ: Looking for a thread from a fellow DBer...

[Abbey]

If it was anyone but her, I'd say you were right. BUT... this woman is a grade A nutcase. This would not stop her. She is so into her own personality disorder that it would make her more determined.

My job right now, is to make sure when I pull the plug when I DO move out, that he'll miss me like crazy. (I still say he has to get her full on and finish the mess he initially started). This is unfinished business that I expected the first year back together, not now.

So... at the moment she thinks she's won... and honestly, that the best place for me to be. The more she thinks I'm out of the way, the sloppier and abusive she gets. She is already using threats about access to the child etc. SOOO... allowing her to think she has free reign is like letting the raccoon in the hen house.

He's already moaning about her here and there and they ARE fighting. My belief is that I really don't have to do anything except let her dig her own hole. She's really that manipulative and that stupid at the same time.