About the selfishness: Example, my H wants me to pack my feelings in a bag, accept him telling the OW that he loves her, with me in ear shot.
Oh my lord. I know we debate on here frequently about some of the "stronger stances," but I hope that THIS, at least, is something that we can ALL agree needs some serious boundary-setting, and pronto.
This is simply direspectful, HURTFUL, and NOT good for your own emotional health.
