WHG latetly I have been really treating and thinking of my W as a room mate. It really helps and I know it confuses her. I come and go as I please. I start small talk about superficial things like the weather, the dogs etc.. It really helps. Ever since W has been informing me about her activities, like last night she told me she took today off. I just said enjoy the day. Stop feeling sorry for yourself ( I know easier said than done) but you have to. Stop focusing on her and putting her on a pedastal. Hope you make the best of Thanksgiving as you can.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
