Only a few hours. I went to a solicitor first thing but nobody would see me without phoning for an appointment. So that is a "to do". The paperwork I received is pretty clear anyway, I know what it is and what the effect is. In a nutshell, I cannot sell or use the house as security without her signature. Also if she wanted to occupy the house, she has a legal right to do so, although the money is the motivator here.
I sent her a TM saying I had received the paperwork and it was a great idea, maybe it will help her feel more secure.
I got back "Hope you are OK with it, can't talk now, ring me tonight x"
Note the "x"
Clearly not the reaction she had steeled herself for and took the wind out of her sails. No idea what comes next, D petition maybe? My psychology books are suggesting that this is the right method, agree with everything she does and go along with it with a happy face. Apparently, it disarms them, because they cannot argue with someone who agrees all the time. Also it adds the mystery element of why they are not fighting it.
As far as this paperwork goes, it is a fait accompli, so nothing whatever I can do. If the D petition happens, well so what, the ED has already taken place and so the legal bit is irrelevant. Let's see how I take it though if it happens, but it will be her doing the work, I will not help in any way but have decided I wouldn't defend it.
My chest feels like there is an elephant sitting on it and I am still shaking. Shock I suppose.
