Thank you all for the great advice, I keep messing up, Had asked her to go to things with me and our S (such as children's christmas party at work and a nativity set at a church that has live animals). I don't mean to come off as going with me, because I truly want our S to have both of us there for him. This is the first year I am off the days to go to these events as a family, and now I don't have her. Her reply was she wasn't sure she could get off from work (even tho the times were before and after her work times). For both things I told her it was ok, and it would still be fun for just me and him, tho I thought it would be great for him if we were both there.
M 33 W 29 S 4 M 5 T 7 11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents 12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over" 1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped
