"WIW I thought the guys who posted to you about porn were insensitive and a bit ignorant about the pornography issue. It is not the other partner's 'fault' if someone looks at porn. Porn is not a bit of nudity or fun. It is what depersonalises sex and intimacy, and is very destructive of relationships. many theraaists spend a lot of time dealing with the fall out from porn users."
As for the porn issue, it is a matter of personal opinion and tolerance. There are porn users and porn abusers. Some men and women like it, some don't. The vast majority of the population view porn (both men and women) and it hasn't destroyed the majority of their relationships. This shouldn't be generalized as it is a matter of personal preference.
I don't think the guys who posted about it were insensitive. They were being honest about their viewpoint as well as you. Take it as such.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
