I am still dealing with it 7 years later

[BeingMe]

Thanks for the update. It's nice to hear that those who suffered so much, actually got through it and flourished. I've been at this for about the same amount of time, and I see that my H is still in his crisis. I don't expect him to come out for awhile and I am, at last, starting to let the M go. Not that I want to get D'ed. I'd be happy with your type of sitch, and I can see that happening for me too. All my kids are past the 18 year mark, and have survived the whole MLC with me. My H still "lives" at home, which means he has a room at our house, but travels often for work. He's more in hotels than at home. He is putting me through university (or, I should say 'we are' - still our money). My daughter too. So, life goes on, and I don't feel much for him anymore ... not emotionally anyway. I do love him, but when I say 'love', it's more a mental thing, not of the heart.

Gah! Going on too much. Glad to see you're doing so well.