Sorry for your pain. I understand how you feel. We all do.
There is only one thing you can do!
Only one thing that MAY save your marriage.
The one thing that WILL save you.
And it's something that just months ago seemed easy and natural.
But today is almost impossible...
LIVE!
Go out with friends. See a movie. Enjoy a pint. Go for a run.
LIVE LIVE LIVE!!!
She will only see anger if you're angry!
She will only see resentment if you are resentful!
She will only see sadness if you are sad!
Fake it if you must. At least for now.
But I guarantee...
If you fake it long enough. Fake your happiness, your joy, your love of life...
IT WILL BECOME REAL!!!
And before you know it, you are saved.
And who did you save?
YOURSELF!!!
Live AJ, Live!!!
Good luck my friend from across the pond...
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012
