Feel like I'm living the movie Groundhog Day...

[workinghardguy]

Well that was a nice touch... Got home to find that w used her day off to work on drafting our d papers via the state's online pro se website (as an aside, do we have to use the Internet to make everything easier?). Now, she did mention on Sunday during our talk that she might as well start working on the d paperwork... And in our state it takes four months minimum from filing to decree and that's the legal requirement not including court scheduling. So I'm not really shocked, just saddened. Hard to see it in print, even if it's just draft form.

I didn't react. It ate me up at first but this is where she is at and what she feels she needs to do. That applies to both the d and to working on d paperwork. You feel like such a bad person and a screw up at this point, but her actions do not reflect on me. I am still here and still willing to fight for my family. This step reflects on her. I will own my mistakes and failures but I won't own this. I don't condemn her... She is human and hurting but I also won't own it.