I told her "Wife, I am trying in every way to reach down and grab your hand to pull you out of pit of sorrow you are in so that we can walk and work together as partners. I am ready to be there next you as man. But somehow you chose to be in that pit. At this time i have nothing more left in me". Yea sounded like a movie line. But that's how i felt. Next thing i know wife is again asking me to look for a counselor in her city so we can figure this thing out.
Good job, MK. Very nicely done. I think a lot of us could say that to our Ws in our own sitches and mean every word. I agree with SF - she is responding differently to the 180, and in a positive way. No question she's conflicted, the way she's flip-flopping on the whole C thing.
