Wife just told me doesn't want to be married

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Thats just it I am always nice. I always try to strike up a conversation.
She texted me last night I asked her how kids were and how her work was. After she told me I texted her nitey nite and she texted back gnight.

I just don't want to make her uncomfortable in our home when she comes home and I am there. She says I linger and she gets uncomfortable cause of the OM as well. Which I asked her about last week, but thats a whole other post.

This is why I am also trying to cut of seeing her. Next time we are together more catching up perhaps.

Thanksgiving I have the kids with me. I offered to take them to her parents house but instead without asking me let me have them overnight to spend more time with them. Then I was offered the whole weekend returning them on Sunday a day before her Bday. So now she can spend all weekend with OM.

Which is not my concern. Having a good time with my kids is my only concern.
Now I asked earlier should I leave my ring off or put it back on showing I am still committed to repairing this.

Her bday next week I am just giving her the gifts from kids. My family is not giving her anything which part of me understands since she said she didn't want to be married.