Sorry to hijack Gunny's thread.

"unless putting lights up has traditionally been your w's thing and she might get upset if you did it, DO THEM...especially if it is your thing or a joint thing."

25 I always did the outside and W did the inside. I will do the outside again, usually on Thanksgiving. if W does not do the tree inside than I will especially since D wants it.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden