MTS, glad to see you back. I think you're doing about as well you could be doing considering the circumstances. You are absolutely tearing it up GAL'ing. You have a lot healthy activities mixed in.
I'm sure your head is still spinning with how fast this has happened. Your W still seems to be heading down the road of destruction will little thought to the consequences.
Be wise and take your time getting involved in another relationship, although I can totally understand that craving for another relationship. You know what to do - just keep praying about, brother, and I am praying for you, too.