I don't want a D and I didn't want to file. I only did it because I need some help with supporting the kids and he wasn't making any effort to do that. He keeps going on trips alone and spending money left right and center while I am playing the rob peter to pay paul game.
I think I am worried he will be happy about it. He is the one that wants the D. He has shown no emotion about the ending of our 12 year relationship and it hurts. Even if he thinks it is for the best there should be some sort of grieving over it.