Wife left

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So I set some goals:
(1) God : I was a catholic, but when we tried to get our son baptized and they told us we haven't been paying our dues, I sort of gave up on church. I feel bad for never trying her church out (she is a sort of Baptist). I found a church thru a friend at work that I will try out. Its a general Christian Church. Now I am going to go regardless, but should I give her an invite?
(2) Sobriety : I haven't had a drink since November 3rd. I'm still trying to find hobbies to fill in for the ones that I don't want to do because of the association with alcohol.
(3) Physical Fitness : I am going to stick to running and weight training. Lots of stress release. Lost 18 lbs already, though a lot of it has been from the stress of the separation.

Another question. The MIL is pretty much her best friend. Is it ok for me to ask her questions about the R? Or is that a major NO! I know the MIL wants this to work out.