I went to a dinner and sat with the president of my alma mater. I've begun working out again (I did take a break from that for a while). I've been talking to a couple of different women on the phone. I'm going to Vegas twice next month, including New Years. I've received several job opps. I've taken a couple trips on weekends. I've been more consistent in working with my Little (Big Brothers Big Sisters). I've been in two weddings and attended a third. I've been killing it in the classroom and I'm looking to finish up strong this semester. I'm working another game this weekend for the bowl that I'm affiliated with. I'm going to a NFL game next weekend. I even took myself shopping. I'm even back to hanging out with some of my married friends that I once felt so awkward around given the sitch. They all basically said they were waiting on me to come around and that they missed me...ultimately said they support me fully and hate what my XW did. I've cleaned up my bills for the most part and I'm planning for a future...problem is I just don't know the true direction of it but that's ok for now.
Church and Bible Study are still a staple of my weekly routine and I've grown leaps and bounds. I don't know what stage I'm in really. Don't know what's in store but I know that I'm in a better place today than I was months ago. Today was just a little more rough than usual but I'll get through it. I expect the holidays to be tough. I'll go back to never looking at any of her social media again...that's worked well for me until today when I gave in to curiosity.
Appreciate any and all thoughts and will do my best to get caught up on some of your sitches soon.
mid 20s Tgther 7 yrs W EA 04/12/11 PA 04/23/11 W filed 05/11/11 I moved out 08/05/11 Mediation mid Oct 11 D final Dec 11 Now what? ...2012
