Can MLC last a short time?

[MrBond]

"Well, I've pretty much done everything possible to keep saving my marriage. "

Like what? And have you done the things for long periods of time or just short bursts?

"Maybe I need to figure out what I want for a change...."

This should be first and foremost. If you want your M, you are going to have to do the heavy lifting for awhile.