Luvhurts,

If she's doing things to spite you and get your attention, that would be construed as a good sign because she's thinking about you. It's worse if she's not thinking about you at all and doesn't care what you think about anything.

Originally Posted By: luvhurts
I've recently found out that at least one of my closest friends has been "feeding" intel to my W. This has left me very scorn and disrespected. I have yet to confront my so-called friend on this.


What on earth does that mean? Have you been confiding in someone who is passing your thoughts along to your W behind your back? Why would they do that? That would definitely sabotage your efforts, although once again, if your W cares what you're thinking or what you're up to, that's probably a good sign.

Negative attention is sometimes better than zero thought, because they are thinking about you at all.

Tell me more about the "intel" that your friend was collecting.

Accuray


Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015