new to this..

[learning2listen]

I am going to keep moving forward.. I have actually been offered a new job, that may just solve my finacial problems...it almost seems to good to be true, however I think its just what I need.

My girls and I will continue to find happiness within each other.. I would be lying to say I am not worried about H, but that is just something I cant turn off. In this economy its very hard for me to see anyone unemployed...but it is not my problem directly anymore...

Working hard... the advice you gave if he does reach out, is spot on, but I only hope I am strong enough to be a little "unavailable"...I must stay detached... I think your right, he needs to feel as though I am not right there to pick up the pieces.. that would be a huge 180 for me...I can hear the little voice inside my head telling me...you can do it.. this is his problem and how he decides to handle it is on him..