In the post today was an official notice that she has registered a charge against the house. The effect of this is to prevent me selling or using the house as security for loans etc. This explains well why she has avoided me for 2 weeks, she clearly does not have the guts to be upfront with me. This also explains why I was told to send her paperwork to her mother (I have just taken it round).
So, how do I play this? I assume I have to be all sweetness and light and tell her what a clever girl she is to think of that and I am just a little disappointed that she didn't let me know what she was doing?
As a footnote, she has been harbouring a resentment for some years about the fact that her name is not on the title to the property. It wasn't deliberate, but it was my money and status used to buy the house when she had none of either.
I am very angry about this, but strangely calm at the moment. Just looks to me like she definately is wanting out. Should I carry on waiting for her? I want to but no point wasting my life crying for the moon.
