Honestly, being away from this "first hand", is simpler. Easier to deal with. They're getting the dose of reality needed to hopefully go back to you. Best advice I can give you, make sure when that time comes you AGREE to get counseling. It was the mistake we made and thus... the drama continues.
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.