REQ: Looking for a thread from a fellow DBer...

[Abbey]

Starsky, nothing about any of the friendship thing is easy. I would suggest that the failure rate becomes part and parcel of both the WAS taking total advantage of the sitch, and then the LBS bails. OR... the LBS finds the emotional turmoil far too much to endure and they simply give up. Doing the friendship thing, hell, even DBing is enduring a certain amount of emotional abuse. They're utterly brain dead at this stage.

So... I'm aware that what I"m doing this time may not work. I'm well aware that my feelings for him are already being chipped away at. There's a breaking point for me, and if that happens, the lawyers will have to do their job at that point.

I *know* this parasite will try everything she can to get pregnant again. If he lets that happen, not only is he a total moron, but he's going to be a financially broke one.