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[learning2listen]

Well my h is losing his job... he called yesterday and we spoke for about 90 seconds.. (he got another call from a worried employee..) he was suppose to call back but I missed his call.

I feel bad for him, and honestly I am worried about his financial obligations to me, and I think, this is just stupid to be supporting two households.

We have been able to survive him losing his job before, but he doesnt seem to even think about "us" in this current situation. I dont think he is even thinking that way.

Really when I think about it, he originally said he hated his job, he resented me for things in the past and he was miserable.. then he decided he needed to "fix" his job, so he threw himself into work.. for what? now it is closing and the owners werent even going to tell him.. he found out by accident. So the job he put above everything including his family is not what it seemed.. now what? not that he has even discussed anything with me.. what is he going to do?

What am I suppose to do? I am super confused.