What do I do next? Part 2

[luvhurts49]

@Accuray, I think my W takes our kids to the movies just so I can't do it with them and it could be because she feels guilty and to tick me off.

From my understanding, she really doesn't do much with our kids. When she has them, she makes them dinner (usually something frozen or takes them out to eat $$$) and then they sit in front of the TV while she plays on her phone.

Now when I have the kids, I usually MAKE dinner. That doesn't mean that we don't do frozen pizzas, but more time than not, I usually cook something even if it's just Mac N Cheese. After dinner we'll go into the living room and I'll play with my S3 while S12 watches TV. When S3 gets tired of playing with me, then me and S12 will sit and talk about his day or he'll have me help him with something. As bedtime comes closer, S3 will ask to cuddle with me on the couch (something S12 says he doesn't do with my W).

The point is, I try to be involved with my kids, not just feeding them and letting them run wild and do whatever they want. I think it's disgusting that my W, who has always been a great mother, is basically ignoring her own kids.

I've recently found out that at least one of my closest friends has been "feeding" intel to my W. This has left me very scorn and disrespected. I have yet to confront my so-called friend on this.

My W has shown zero interest in finding out what I am doing (probably because of my so-called friend). I don't see my W but for 2 minutes 3 times a week when she's dropping off our S3 and I have a feeling that is going to change very soon here. She wants to take him out of our current daycare to put him in one that opens earlier. I do not want this to happen. My S3 loves it where he is at and has lots of friends there.

My IC is okay I guess. I really don't exercise and really haven't done much for fun either. The friends I thought I had are turning out to be not so much my friends. What "real" friends I do have have pretty busy lives of their own.