Sorry to hear it. Just some perspective -- had you told your W that you planned to take the kids to the movie and she knowingly pre-empted you, or has she just been behaving in an indulgent way that you never get the chance to go first? Know that she may be indulging them from a place of guilt versus trying to slight you.
She will get curious what you're up to if you stay dim/dark and GAL *eventually*. With OM in the picture, she's getting her needs met and is probably not thinking about much else besides the kids, how she feels, and OM.
Sorry to hear about Facebook as well, I guessed that might happen. Unfortunately you do need to accept that "she just doesn't care" right now and let that guide your actions and your expectations.
I realize that is virtually no comfort to you. What are you doing for yourself these days? How is IC going? Are you exercising? What are you doing for fun?
Hang in there, realize that the darkest time is now, it will get better.
Accuray
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
