Gunny glad you have so many invites. I would go to as many as possible that would be a 180?. I am spending it at home with my W and D. It is going to be weird but if it is my last one as a family I would make the most of it. W never invites family for the holidays. Not mine or hers. Always bothered me. I will put up Christams lights as I have for years. Won't ruin it for my D. She wants the tree up so if W doesn't want to I will do it with D. Have a great day buddy


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden