I have never worn it in the past, citing the danger with machinery. However, wearing it now is a symbol of my love for her and my determination that I want her to stay my wife until forever. I was concerned that wearing it would look like pressure but what the hell.
IT IS PRESSURE!! The LBH needs to understand that this is not the correct steps to take if you're trying to save the M. You need to do the opposite and stop trying to convince her of your determination. It is a pure turn-off to a WAW. Why would you say "what the hell" when you claim that you want her to stay? That makes no sense. Take the ring off (since you have not worn it in the past) and stop showing "determination") to stay in the M. She needs to wonder if you're through with her.
Honestly, have you guys listened to anything I've said, or are you just so "determined" to butt with your own stubborn heads b/c you think you know what to do?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
