Doesnt seem like a good idea to have your sis. move in. Can you just help her with the rent so she can live in the apt alone? Its a financial burden I know but might help keep your M intact during this difficult time. Also if your H is getting a raise...
Give your parents time. If your H continues to make you happy & treat you well then your parents will forgive him one day. Let your parents go as slow as they need to.
So glad you guys are doing well.
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13