Don't worry about the hijack West, lets call this thread the: Friends Mode thread.
I get what you mean about them being oblivious to our feelings. Stupid as this sounds, my H told the OW on the phone: Love you. I asked him did you just say that to her? His response: Yes. She's the mother of my daughter. I have no problems telling her that.
Oh really? *shakes* head. Stupid thing is... After I heard it, and it made me mad, there came this moment of clarity. He's frigged in the head again. He's gone selfish. Which is what I have to realize I'm dealing with. He's not just selfish with me... but selfish with her. (With her, they fight like cats and dogs). The power struggle between them is already in high gear over their child.
Considering a convo we had earlier in the day about how we did "ok" having an affair on her when we split, I said, We're going to end up having an "affair" when I move into town, aren't we? He said yes, he hugged me and the next thing... we ended up in bed.
He's already "cheating" on her again. Irony. *smile*
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.
