I am not sure what is happening again. I thought things were looking more settled, but on Friday I had a computer chat with her and was told about something expensive she was buying and the fact that she was thinking of another pet. As I couldn't find any record of a bid in her account name for the item, I think it may have been to gauge my reaction, which was "That's great". Left the chat on a nice note I thought.
Had a brief exchange last night to tell her I had some important paperwork for her and got a blunt response to send it to her mother's. Clearly saying to me, I still do not want to see you.
A couple of weeks ago, she did say she was going to take legal advice. It is since then that I haven't seen her, so I wonder if I am expecting papers to arrive and she doesn't want to face me.
Reading Co-dependant no more and various other books to try to make some sense of it all. I keep picking up DR and re-reading it. I am showing my changes are consistent and am always pleasant and friendly during conversations. I'm starting to wonder if I am just better walking away as she seems to have zero interest in trying to repair the M.
I am wary of posting too much detail now as I just wonder if she has access to my posts. I have asked for editing or deletion but I get ignored, so have to post less useful info.
