WHG, I'm glad it was a better day for you. Glad you've been able to resurrect your exercise program.

Originally Posted By: workinghardguy
I noticed today that I am finding my compassion and forgiveness coming back. When I think of my W it's more often a feeling of sorrow for her than anger. At least today it was.

I completely understand this. I tend to cycle back and forth between these feelings. I think when I'm in the mode of taking a step back and looking at my situation from a rational point of view, I'm able to get to this place. When I'm mired in my situation and right in the thick of it - that's when I feel the anger. With all of the work you've been doing for yourself and what you've mentioned with the kids, you are certainly in a better place than your W is.

Originally Posted By: workinghardguy

She talked it out and I just listened.

Good job. It's very likely she will miss this if she follows through with her agenda.


BITS
Me:46 / W:47 / M:19 / T:21 / S13
Bomb#1: 5/8/2008
MC: 5/2008 - 4/2010
Bomb#2: 2/10/2011
W moves out 5/7/2011

'With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.' - Matt. 19:26