I hope he will set up another appointment, even as expensive as it most likely is, it would be worth it, and it's cheaper than a D. I went to IC, because my H refused to go. I bet your H would get a lot out of IC, if you could find a really good pro marriage one. It makes you feel kind of empowered to help yourself. Hopefully, you'll get back enough of your out of pocket expenses, that he will see it's not unaffordable.
Creamed Spinach?? Oh my goodness, I love that. I want your recipe. I buy lots of fresh spinach every week to use in wraps for H and S's lunches. I always ate my spinach as a kid. They say it makes you big and strong, maybe that's why I have survived this crapola.