So then Mr. Woody was right all along! Lol. As I said, I've felt great attractions but I wouldn't call that a "special connection" it's more like lust or infatuation which aren't the best ingredients for a mature, loving relationship. What's special for me is when I feel I can just be myself around someone and it's OK. I felt that with MM and I felt that with STBX before she became Voldy! That's a great feeling to truly believe that someone likes you for just being you and you don't have to be someone else around them. That's a "special connection" in my books anyway. Gotta go, the babes from POF are calling...ah, let 'em wait, it'll make them want me all the more! Lol.