Thanks, I know something like this is hard to explain, I'm just trying to understand it. Of course, when someone is boring, boorish etc you can know this isn't the person for me. But, to know right away whether someone is "the one" seems kind of strange to me. I've felt intense physical attractions and they are often not the best thing for any relationship. I've dated women who that wasn't there but it grows as we got to know each other. It's just something I hear and read in the profiles and don't quite get. If we "click" makes sense but what does that include. In my mind, if we can talk easily, share, laugh, enjoy our time is that "clicking"? I dunno, maybe it's just such a personal thing that it means something different to each person. Anyway, don't worry I'm not sweating it, just trying to figure out a game I haven't played in a long, long time! In my mind, I was like striking gold for this lady but she didn't see it that way, which is OK. Oh well, onward and upwards!
