Can't edit the last post, but I forgot to add that H hasn't called the counselor yet. I've always pushed for counseling, so I want to take a step back for a change. I'll be happy if he just starts going to counseling on his own without me interfering.
On the other hand, I really feel like we need an outside force to help guide us. He has always been somewhat resistant about going, but he says that its really about money with this counselor. We both like him and he really made H think, however, he is expensive. We're supposed to be getting an invoice from him soon so that we can recoup some of our out of pocket costs. I'm hoping that is when H will make some sort of move in respect to setting up another appointment.
