Well...

choose your battles wisely and be prepared for them

He is giving something up, what does he get in return.

That sounds blunt. It is.

If my wife had a problem with porn, we have a talk about having sex more often.

Porn is also subjective.

The difference between Botticelli'sThe Birth of Venus and Ms. September 1971 or 2011 for that matter?

Both are nude.

One has a frame.

It's a matter of taste, what is tasteful? What is respectful?
And again...what is a fantasy?


As several good friends would say:
Is this the hill you're willing to die on?


He isn't snorting crack, he isn't robbing banks. I'm assuming what he likes isn't a snuff film.

I'm defending him, because I understand it.


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet