You should. This is about your son now, not your H. As much as you can, try and not to make it sound like a personal attack. He might think it is, but you'll have the C there to reign him in hopefully.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.