Question: What is this "special connection" one is supposed to feel? Wendy said she didn't feel it. I don't even know what it is! I've never felt this "she's the one" kind of feeling from an initial contact with a woman. The only magical indicator I ever noticed was when Mr. Woody stood on end, and I'm in my fifties now so that indicator is pretty much on the wane. But seriously though, can one expect to feel some "special connection" from one meeting with someone? I notice that gets common mention in women's profiles, they want to meet to feel the "spark", feel the "connection" or the "chemistry" Huh? I've seen one profile where she said "our eyes meet across a crowed room and we know..." Is she kidding? Never been there or done that. I've always found that feeling, if that's what it is, grows over time by knowing someone, spending time with them and then figuring out whether or not it's for real. For me if you can be together, talk for hours and enjoy that time then that's a pretty good start. Am I just a romantic luddite? What am I missing? Explain please!
