If you're friends with us and we go out drinking, you may see my W intoxicated--friends would have to accept that.
Doesn't everyone from time to time? I think friends would accept that. When people go out drinking, being intoxicated is a probably and common outcome.
If it happens all the time, you might express concern for her health and safety.
I would be careful not to make what others think about her drinking you problem. Her drinking is her issue. If people are turned off by that, that is not about you. As long as she doesn't start trouble that you have to extricate her from, what others think about her drinking is between them and her.
I'm not scolding you but sort of seeing a pattern. Perhaps you are easily flustered or put out of sorts and maybe need to relax a bit. Not sure but it is food for thought.
Me 44 She 46 S13 D9 M18 T23 3 years DB'ing Successfully busted
