"do I want to welcome this apparently very selfish, untrustworthy, self-absorbed person back into my life to dominate it utterly"
No you want your W back. Right now you're bitter and it's showing. If you're still interested in saving your M, then you have to stop this line of "woe is me" thinking or else it will leak into your regular interactions with her.
"But I was evidently wrong about who she was, and now I am paying that price."
Whether you stay with your W or not, everyone changes. You weren't wrong about who she was. She's just changed. You're fighting against that. I'm sure you've changed as well.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
