I hate to take away from COG but Accuray can you go over to my thread and give it a read. I am in the same boat except I called her out on it last week and now I am going dark/dim only seeing her every other weekend when I would pick up kids for my weekends. I am taking my kids two nights a week.
M37 W34 S6 D3 M8yrs T14 S 1year Told me she doesn't want to be married 10/2011 "I will never stop trying because when you find the ONE, you never give up." Steve Carrell Crazy, stupid, Love
