Thought about you yesterday and how you have to hold your ground with your family about your decision to stay with H. I was making X-mas decorations at a gathering of good friends. Conversation soon got into R & M. A newish friend in the group started telling me that I didn't love my H! Another one asked if I liked him as a person. As they whirled their own ideas and judgments at me I was a little stunned, but I held my ground. Thankfully one friend in the group who has known me for 35 years spoke up and helped by saying I would never just stay in a R or M if I wasn't in love. It's hard isn't it?!
Then validation came. They also were saying how my H is pompous and cocky. I told them it was just a cover for a very insecure person and that I honestly don't think he realizes how he comes across sometimes. I deal with his insecure idiosyncrasies all the time. Sometimes I do better than at other times. J3B I hope you read this! Sorry lc4 for the mini hijack.
M 55 H 58 M 24 T 29 S 22,21, 19 Bomb 4/10 It (A) really isn't about you 11/2013 We all have work to do
The truth will set you free, but it will almost kill you first.
