Wow, you did an AMAZING job of handling yourself! There were a few circumstances in the past few years when I caught my husband texting or emailing his ow (like you, without snooping), and I always erupted in anger. Guess what? That was never the right option, and I always regretted it later. You showed incredible self-control in not mentioning it at all. Like you said, I think he knows you know, so it will be interesting to see if he asks you anything about it. All I can say is just keep on doing what you're doing! You are incredible at keeping your cool!
I agree with JB; your husband seems very conflicted. It's so obvious to me that he is still emotionally attached to you and the life you represent: loving wife, sweet family, consistency, etc., yet he's a bit interested in what the "single life" has to offer him. I can tell you this...my husband was the same way, and he discovered after time on his own the grass was indeed greener at OUR home. I hope your husband does the same, before it's too late.
I hope you and your family have a happy, drama-free, BLESSED Thanksgiving! love, lc4
